Woowww.... Love..... Magic or Love.....
Has always been an interesting subject to ponder over….Every time I think about love…. I get lost in its magic…. I thought I will try and pen down my today’s thoughts…
Love is is….
An utter madness which is beyond logics… it just happens… It’s a state in itself…
We feel…. Love knows No PAIN….
Yet we sometimes we get hurt or we find ourselves in pain or irritation…. N realize that its now the side effect of LOVE… (on a lighter note…)
Is it not our “Thinking” or “Ability to think” which makes us experience these kinds of side effect…. Is it not “Thinking” which probably complicates and spoils all the fun n playfulness…. Is it not our “ability to think” which further gives birth to issues like – Wants, Needs, Expectations or Desires… Like….Needing to be with the loved one always….. Wanting to possess…. Expecting love / care n blah blah in return… Desire to be the “only ONE” in his / her life….
I feel somehow… In the event of “happening” (as in - when love is happening to us) Love comes in its true nature…. N the moment we start working upon it (as if it’s a project or a plan) it starts loosing its Innocence….the Beauty of Freedom with which it knocked our hearts… gets cramped…
When was the last time I loved someone without wanting to possess… when was the last time I intensely looked at someone without expecting a lovely glance in return…when was the Last time we fell in love with out beloved truly… madly and deeply….without judging / evaluating why do we love this person…..
I know, we can not eliminate the role of our “Ability to think” from our lives…. But then is there any chance that we can give it a direction… Consciously giving it a direction with the full awareness of what is the true nature of love….. a child like innocent love…
Love gives strength to embrace one and all….
We all are special…. So this valentine day…. I pray to God to bless all of us with the power of love which helps us look at everyone with empathy, compassion, care and Respect….
Don’t restrict your love to only your SOME one special… but rather extend it to the “special self” in each one who is around you….
Interesting post....
ReplyDeleteSpecially liked the thought on the "Ability to think"... and would take it further to "conditioned ability to think" which is the outcome of social conditioning.
To the concept of defining relationships for the simple reason..."Security" i say - thought provoking....
Keep up the spirit.
Very nice tejal.. you do have it in you.. your view point of love is cool… the youthfulness is there when there is madness..:) as you have suggested…I liked your perceptions on “ Thinking” and “ ability to think”
ReplyDeleteWould just like to put some of my thoughts to you.. Well love is not just madness.. once you get over that phase.. it is serene… the logic moves out… the logic some times in a mature relationship moves out of the way…..
and yeah love has pain.. but that’s sweet..
Well definining relationships for security really invokes some kind of thought process... well true.. but not in every case.. relationships are formed.. in love... (not marriage)
Cheers Tejal keep it up.. you definitely have way with words..
Sincere thanks to you sudhir... feels good to receive such compliments... Long way to goo though ... i just hope i get better everyday at expression...
ReplyDeleteYou complements reminded me of one of my best fren, who appreciates my way of expression.
Now as u rightly pointed out that “love is serene in Mature relationships, logic moves out..”
N this is what exactly what I want to say.. that the first phase is to falling in love.. utterly beautiful..but it has to grow further in a positive direction.. n should really help an individual grow .. to a level where love is unconditional... n believe me its kinda difficult.. rather very difficult.. may be because d ME in our SELF is to be tackled.. kinda easier said than DONE… kinda an IDEAL situation where we all want to be… we all understand it intellectually but it does not become a part of our subconscious… n hence comes the need to go deep within our OWN self… n Observe our own actions…
I agree “Relationships are formed in love…” but at times Relationship starts overtaking LOVE… relationship gets associated more with demands than love…
I think LOVE has a lot to do with Self conscious… OMG… its just so vast…
hmmmmm so u'v learnt bloggin haaan now datz wot i call a giirl of aaj kaa din stay riight liike dat always and by the way wotz up babez full on love kee philosophy nd all dat yeah.....valentine mood at its bezzt yeah jeeturaaj
ReplyDeleteIN SCRIPTURE IS SAID THAT IT ALL STARTS FROM THE DEPTH OF CONSCIOUSNESS, WHEN THE FIRST STAGE TOWARDS THIS ULTIMACY KNOWN AS "BHAVA" IS ACHIEVED IN MIND. THIS IS FOLLOWED BY THE STAGE CALLED "MAHA BHAVA" - A RARE HAPPENING IN THE MIND OF ORDINARY MORTALS. TRANSCENDING THIS SOMES THE STAGE OF "PREMA" - HERE IMPORTANCE IS FOR THE STATE OF PREMA AND NOT FOR THE OBJECT OF PREMA. AND JUST WITH A THIN LAYER STILL LEFT TO CROSS ONE ENTERS INTO THE STATE OF SAMADHI - THE PURE PRESENT THE BLISS FULL - THE ULTIMATE GOAL - THE PARAM SATYA - THE CONCLUSION TRUTH OF EVERY KNOWLEDGE - THAT WHO IS CALLED THE KRISHNA IN 18 MAHA PURANAS.
ReplyDeleteTRY TO DO THIS IF U SO DESIRE, JUMP IN THE INFINITE OCEAN OF THIS PREMA LEAVING BEHIND THE SEPARATING EGO LIKE DIFFERENT RELIGION, DIFFERENT LIVE SPECIES, DEAD OBJECTS AND EVEN YOUR INDIVIDUAL AHAM. AND THEN YOU WILL SEE EVERY THING IN YOU AND YOUR SELF IN EVERY THING.
IT IS THAT WHICH MEERA BAI DID, YOU KNOW THIS NAME?
GOD BLESS YOU
nice thought, look fwd to read many more good stuff frm ur side..
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ReplyDeleteBHABHI MAST HAI ........NW M MORE CLEAR ABOUT LOVE....
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