Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Love….

Woowww.... Love..... Magic or Love..... 
Has always been an interesting subject to ponder over….Every time I think about love…. I get lost in its magic….
 I thought I will try and pen down my today’s thoughts…

Love in natural state knows No Evaluation… No judgement… No Security or insecurity… No Possessions or Sacrifices… No Obsessions…. No man-made rules.. No religion or Philosophies….. No Relationships or Boundaries in relationships….

Love is is….

An utter madness which is beyond logics… it just happens… It’s a state in itself…
N Yess… noone can experience this state 24 X 7 … or for all 365 days…

We feel…. Love knows No PAIN….
Yet we sometimes we get hurt or we find ourselves in pain or irritation…. N realize that its now the side effect of LOVE… (on a lighter note…)

Now I am just thinking aloud….

Is it not our “Thinking” or “Ability to think” which makes us experience these kinds of side effect…. Is it not “Thinking” which probably complicates and spoils all the fun n playfulness….  Is it not our “ability to think” which further gives birth to issues like – Wants, Needs, Expectations or Desires… Like….Needing to be with the loved one always….. Wanting to possess…. Expecting love / care n blah blah in return… Desire to be the “only ONE” in his / her life….

Does it not start revolving around “I”… “me” …. Or “myself”…..

I feel somehow… In the event of “happening” (as in - when love is happening to us) Love comes in its true nature…. N the moment we start working upon it (as if it’s a project or a plan) it starts loosing its Innocence….the Beauty of Freedom with which it knocked our hearts… gets cramped…

“Relationship” …. Now, Here’s a catch… this is what man has devised to establish “Security” in Love…

When was the last time I loved someone without wanting to possess… when was the last time I intensely looked at someone without expecting a lovely glance in return…when was the Last time we fell in love with out beloved truly… madly and deeply….without judging / evaluating why do we love this person…..

I know, we can not eliminate the role of our “Ability to think” from our lives…. But then is there any chance that we can give it a direction… Consciously giving it a direction with the full awareness of what is the true nature of love….. a child like innocent love…

Allow love to touch your life…. Allow it stay on your mind…. let it not mix up with your logics… Rules…. Regulations….. etc etc… Don’t try working on it… Let it dance on its own n you will be a happy and blissful soul….

Love gives strength to embrace one and all….

We all are special…. So this valentine day…. I pray to God to bless all of us with the power of love which helps us look at everyone with empathy, compassion, care and Respect….
Don’t restrict your love to only your SOME one special… but rather extend it to the “special self” in each one who is around you….