Apart from some certain blood relationships… should all relations be named ? what is d fundamental need of doing so ?
I keep wondering… why should all relations necessarily have names…? Should we not just enjoy the flow…??
Sometimes I feel, apart from our blood relationships or few specific relationships (like guru-disciple or some professional relationships), all the other people we meet, our relationship with each one of them, by default, fall under “Friend Ship”….
What is this Friendship means? What is a friend ? what is a “special” friend ;-) ?? what is more than a friend …? ;-) seems like a teenage language… but surprisingly we all use it to classify our folks…
Are we trying to give a structure or are we kind of defining boundary by giving a tag / title to the chemistry that 2 people are going to share…as in how one suppose to address the other person… what should be these two people talking about in general… how much to get involved… How much should be “physical involvement”…n blah.. blahh ..blah…
Can there exist a relation… of pure love and care… n no malice…. With no secret agenda… with no great expectations other than few basic of course..(like communication and sharing & caring)… with both of them intending to go nowhere…. But to be with each other… there is certainly belongingness but no compulsions…. a relationship where you have nothing to loose… but just yourself…
I do not know whether to call it a “Friendship” because I don’t know till what level the relations are allowed to sprout in “Friendship”… Perhaps I see much more than just friendship in this…
Can Relations not exist in absolute freedom…? I have no idea… but I see a real divine beauty in such nameless relationship…. I strongly feel, all of us must have experienced this thing…may be at different levels or with different intensities….we may not really want to accept it though… But I truly feel it does exist…
But Yess…!! one important question, are we, ourselves, at all prepared, for such kinda relationships… can we ever live in a relationship without an assurance which conventional relationships give us…
